Reformed Baptist Fellowship

Be There!

In Reformed Baptist Fellowship on March 9, 2012 at 4:56 pm

One of the ways which Reformed Baptist Churches have traditionally been distinct from many others Baptist churches is in regard to the serious nature of church membership. We believe that membership is biblical and that it is vital to the life of the disciple. We believe furthermore that members ought to be committed to the church and that they ought to express that commitment by attending all the meetings of the church (for instruction, worship, and prayer) unless they are providentially hindered from doing so. While that is the standard, we must realize that not all within the body will conscientiously embrace this paradigm.

In what follows I want to give four clear incentives to faithfully attending the stated meetings of your church.

The first incentive is Godward. Your church gathers for the worship of God. The Bible says that everything that has breath is praise the Lord. You were made to worship. God is worthy of that worship. When God is being worshiped in the company of the saints, you ought to be there!

The second incentive is selfward. That is for your own good. The church gathers, not only to worship our great God, but to feed, instruct, and equip the saints. Every week spiritual food is prepared by the shepherd for you! It is to aid you in order that you might know the mind of God. While listening to a sermon online is good, nothing beats the dynamics of being in God’s house on the Lord’s Day while His Word is preached to you empowered by His Spirit!

The third incentive is saintward. Your being there matters to the people of God. You have duties toward them (dozens of them!) and they have duties toward you. If you willfully and carelessly absent yourself from these meetings it affects them. Your empty seat at the evening service or at the prayer meeting says something. Your voice in song, your voice in prayer, and your engagement with the preaching all have an impact on the blessing of that day. The church is a flock and missing sheep hurt the flock. The church is a family and the family mourns the empty place at the table. The church is likened to a building. It is a far richer place with all the living stones in place!

The fourth incentive is sinnerward. What do you say to the lost by absenting yourself from God’s house? What are you saying to them about the cost of following Christ? About the worthiness of God? About the place of the saints in the Christian life? What are you saying to them about eternal priorities?

Dear ones, I would not bend the bruised reed or quench the smoking flax. I am not speaking to those who cannot be there, I am speaking to choices. Our choices are informed by what truly matters to us. May the Lord give grace and where need be true and decisive repentance.

Jim Savastio, Pastor
Reformed Baptist Church of Louisville
  1. Excellent. Thank you for this. If anyone is interested in more ideas along this line, I’d recommend 9 Marks ministry.

  2. Jim,
    Thanks for the challenging words which call for denying self that we might live to Christ, His people, and His cause. Sober reflection in regards to faithfulness in worship is never outdated! Hebrews 10:24-25

    Grace & peace,

  3. Gathering with the church is certainly good and biblical. Insisting on a manmade system of “church membership” whereby you draw a circle around a certain number of Christians and in practice if not in teaching exclude others is neither good nor biblical.

  4. ahsido, I don’t know your personal experience with churches, and I’m not going to deny that there are churches that wrongfully exclude others. But, as one who made a covenant commitment with a specific body of believers, and as one who is under pastors who watch over my soul as those who will give an account, I’m not convinced it’s a problem with having church membership- rather, it’s a heart issue, just like the disciples who complained to Jesus that someone else was ministering in Jesus’ name.

    How can you understand the responsibilities of elders and the duty of church discipline (both formative and corrective) apart from some kind of formal membership?

  5. ahsido,
    We must draw a circle around a certain number of Christians in “membership” because the Bible does. The elders must give an account for their flock.

    Who is this flock?
    People who regularly attend? People who come once in awhile?
    How long does someone have to attend before s/he is considered part of the flock? One Sunday? Nine of ten for thirty Sundays in a row?
    What about people who come but don’t profess to believe and don’t want the elders meddling in their affairs?
    What about people who come and do profess to believe but don’t want to give up the scandalous sin they openly commit?
    What about children who’ve grown up in the church and think they are saved because they’ve been warming a pew for 15 years?

    How could someone be “put away from” the body (1 Cor 5) if we don’t have any circle around us that says who is near?
    Who receives the Lord’s Supper?
    Whose opinions do the elders take into account in making decisions for the church?

    Church membership is so Biblical that it’s *assumed* in the New Testament.

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